Sex Addiction – Is It Really a Disease?

Perhaps you have heard about sex addiction but don’t know too much about it. People hear about different stereotypes that fit the disease and many assume it’s a made up disease that perverts or overly sexual people use as an excuse for their behavior. But, NO! Sex addiction is a real, recognized medical condition that has only come to light in recent years within the psychological and medical profession.

Another reason many people don’t know much about the disease is because most addicts don’t freely talk about sexual disorders. They are either too embarrassed, uncomfortable or ignorant about the topic to discuss it openly with family, friends, or others. As a result, there are many misconceptions and stereotypes about sex addiction that are completely untrue.

When someone hears the term sex addict… Many different thoughts come… Are they thinking about the person who kidnaps and rapes children, the spouse who has multiple affairs, the person who exposes themselves or peeps in windows… or is the person who views pornography at work, or stays online for hours on end… or is the person who has sex with underage partners… or is the “pervert” in the raincoat with the long beard who lives in the scary house at the end of the street… And the example go on… There are so many misconceptions of the term sex addiction.

The National Council on Sex Addiction and Compulsive defines sexual addiction as the “engaging in persistent and escalating patterns of sexual behavior acted out despite increasing negative consequences to self and others.” Essentially, this means that addicts are so strongly compelled to carry out their addictive behaviors they are willing to risk their:

Health
Relationships
Financial well-being
Employment
Freedom
and in some cases criminal charges.

This disease is much more than someone using it as an excuse for reckless sexual activities. It is a disease, much like alcohol or drug addiction.

In fact, clinicians and researchers have defined the disorder based on criteria used for chemical dependency literature. According to Psych Central, these criteria include the following:

— Frequently engaging in more sex with more partners than intended

— Being preoccupied with or persistently craving sex; wanting to cut down and unsuccessfully attempting to limit sexual activity.

— Thinking of sex to the detriment of other activities or continually engaging in excessive sexual practices despite a desire to stop.

— Spending considerable time in activities related to sex, such as cruising for partners or spending hours online visiting pornographic websites.

— Neglecting obligations such as work, school or family in pursuit of sex.

— Continually engaging in the sexual behavior despite negative consequences, such as broken relationships or potential health risks.

— Escalating scope or frequency of sexual activity to achieve a desired effect, such as more frequent visits to prostitutes or more sex partners.

— Feeling irritable when unable to engage in the desired behavior.

As you can see, all of the criteria focus on repetitive activities that are carried out continually by the sex addict. The nature of the activities also is defined by escalation, which is also typical of any addiction. Professionals feel that if a person engages in three or more of the above criteria for a period of at least six months that they are a suffering from sex addiction.

The American Psychiatric Association has issued its own set of preliminary criteria for what they call “Hypersexual Disorder.” Essentially, it is another term for sexual addiction. The symptoms are similar to the above criteria and can be used by medical professionals to help identify sex addiction in people who are seeking help or are in desperate need of care.

It is important that the level of awareness about sexual addiction increases among the general public because there are myriad people suffering from this disease in silence. If it were better understood, addicts would feel more comfortable to come forward and seek treatment. As it is right now, addicts are often ashamed, embarrassed and afraid of how people would react to their sex addiction.

Change Prospectives About Sex

Earth is so old. God made the sun, earth, the moon, and other planets. That´s what many of us believe. Now no one knows if that is the truth. Now this can also be denied by many anti-religious people. But something has made this world? Now lets take it to be God himself. Now God made everything that exists in world today. When it comes to evolution of the human race, we know talks are going to crop up about Adam and Eve.

Adam was the supposed first male of the world and Eve was first female. Now God knew that a male alone couldn’t continue to race. So just like he made a female side to all the animals, he made a female side to human also in the form of Eve. Sex then became the most important activity. This is because if there was no sex, there would be no human race. As sex increased, humans increased. This is the reason why sex SHOULD be given a lot of importance.

Today, there are many countries in the world where sex is considered as a taboo. I am from a very different kind of a family. I was born to an Indian lady and a Scottish man. This is perhaps the reason why I have an open and broad mind about sex. If I were born to an Indian couple, then I would be considering sex as a taboo like so many other Indians. Why is it that in developing countries sex is not given the importance and the openness it needs and deserves? Why is it that the inhabitants of these countries have forgotten the basic lessons of evolution of human race? Is it so shameful?

Now I don’t know so much about other developing countries apart from India. Now this stay in India, I have learned that pre-marital sex is supposedly obscene and a taboo in itself. If a girl loves a boy, all efforts are made to separate them, at least in most cases. But yes, its true, even India is trying to adopt the western culture. What they don’t understand is the way of clothing, the cosmetics, their skin color, and such things are not what they should be picking up from the western culture. They open-mindedness is what is required. The orthodoxy is what has to vanish and banish. But it will take another 62 years for that to happen, or may be even more. No one is going to go to each of the small village in India and tell them to speak freely about sex, to be actively involved in it. I mean why be against sex, where as Hindu religion (predominant religion in India) is the only religion with a complete BOOK on sex? Its the only religion where God is shown active in sexual activity (Lord Krishna in Kamasutra). Now when you believe so much in God, shouldn’t you also believe in everything related to the same God?

Sometimes I don’t quite understand now I cant help that. But now that I am staying in India, the girl I am in love with is an Indian. Now I was always worried about the possible differences we might have had in our mentalities. But I am lucky and I must say that the generation today even in a country like India is making efforts to understand sex. A person who is actively involved in SAFE sex is a hero in himself. He shouldn’t be looked at as a criminal.

Why is it that sex is seen as a taboo? This is because surely somewhere sexual activity might have been used in non-acceptable manner. This is the reason that when it might have happened in an uncontrollable account, sex was made into a taboo. I really hate those men who have to take advantage of their physical ability to force a lady into some sort of sexual activity. Sex is not something to be hurtful and forced. It is something both a man and lady is supposed to enjoy. They should be able to compliment each other in sex.

A couple that is healthy in their sexual activity, is a healthy and wise couple. Sex has changed over the past centuries. With time everything changes. Earlier, oral sex was not that famous, but when a religious script like Kamasutra have oral sex pictures and paintings, there is no harm in actually having it now in the sex dictionary. But personal hygiene and health is a must. You cannot be personally unhygienic and spread you bad hygiene to the person you are getting sexually involved with.

Now some might say after being with the same partner for long might turn sex into the most boring thing in life. But this is sadly not the truth. Just like sex has changed in itself so much since the past centuries, we can blindly accept that so many changes have been caused, that means so many modifications have been made, that means there are so many things that can be done differently, that further means that its a vast subject, which no one ever bothers to research apart from sex experts. This is exactly why sex experts make such a posh living. Because everyone wants to have a non-boring sex life, so in stead of researching on their own they take help from the sex experts. Well there is nothing wrong in it. I myself am in favor of this. The margin of mistakes and risks are lower in taking help from a sex expert.

What am I trying to say in this who writing here? I am just trying to talk freely about sex. Because if a person has to be good at sex, he has to be able to talk about it freely to the world. This is just my try to be good at sex. This is just something I learned from a sex expert. Talking. Talking about the subject sex, itself gives you the interest and enthusiasm to have a better sex life with your partner. My next article is going to be the various beliefs about sex that people have in mind, mainly ´SIZE MATTERS´ notion. For now I can only say, don’t be ashamed of talking about sex, don’t be ashamed of having sex, be a LOYAL and SAFE sexually active person.

A good sex life will reflect in your day to day activity. The night you make love to your wife/husband or girlfriend/boyfriend, the next morning you are happier than the morning before. The key to keep the lock called love open and alive for many more years to come is Sex. Use this key well and healthy and decently and legally and you will see how smooth your relationship with your partner goes on.

Thank you for reading…

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Looking For Herbal Remedies For Premature Ejaculation and Tips on How to Make Sex Last Longer?

Those who are experiencing premature ejaculation are usually secretive about their condition. There are only a few men who actually consult their doctors for treatment of early ejaculation. Most men usually go about looking for treatments like herbal remedies for premature ejaculation on their own. Herbal remedies for pre ejaculation are often preferred by premature ejaculators, as they do not require prescriptions and are usually delivered in discrete packages.

There is no treatment for pre mature ejaculation, whether herbal or chemical, that has been approved by the US Food and Drugs Administration just yet. This has not stopped those who have ejaculatory problems and their doctors from experimenting with these natural and home remedies to help men last longer in bed during sexual intercourse. It may sound surprising to you, but it is a fact. You can find out more about this yourself.

There is a wide range of herbal remedies for premature ejaculation and other penile dysfunctions available from a number of venues. These herbal remedies have not been clinically tested but are popularly used nonetheless by men who want to discover how to make sex last longer. These herbal remedies are mostly in cream or spray forms. These herbal remedies work by desensitizing the penis and holding the ejaculatory response.

Among these herbal remedies include Kwang’s Solution, Iron Wood, and Wonder Drug. Again, there are no clinical studies proving the effectivity of these herbal remedies. There are users who have testified to the positive effects of these products in their own cases. It is always best to check with your doctor first before trying out anything for your premature ejaculation treatment. You need to determine what the cause of your pre ejaculation first to be able to get the right remedy for your condition without aggravating your condition or causing any other harmful health effects.

How to Make a Woman Orgasm From Oral Sex – Top Cunnilingus Tips to Give Her Electrifying Pleasure

Every man’s main goal when it comes to pleasing a woman is to finish it off right and to give her an amazing orgasm. However, you just can’t seem to make this happen for your woman. Even during oral sex, you can’t finish it off right for her and this is really starting to weigh you down. You want to give her total and complete satisfaction and you want to drive her wild. It’s time that you learned how to make this happen so you can prove to her what you are really made of.

You are ready to learn how to make a woman orgasm from oral sex. You want to be the best that she has ever had and if you want to make this happen, then you must master oral sex. In order to do this, you need to learn the top cunnilingus tips to give her electrifying pleasure tonight.

The first cunnilingus tip that every man needs to know is that you don’t need to directly stimulate the clitoris in order to bring her to orgasm. This is not common knowledge among men. A lot of men assume that you need to touch the clitoris directly if you want to give her pleasure, but this is not the case. Instead, you can touch around the clitoris with your tongue. In fact, for a lot of women, this is far more pleasurable. The clitoris has about 8000+ nerve endings in it, making it extremely sensitive. This also means that the area around the clitoris has plenty of nerve endings in it as well, but it is far less. This means that you can touch around the clitoris, and still give her an orgasm. Keep this in mind when you are using your tongue on her. You can kiss, lick and suck around the clitoris and still give her great pleasure.

Another cunnilingus tip for men to make your woman orgasm from oral is to give her more stimulation than what is required. Giving your woman that extra boost in pleasure will help her to reach the finale that you are hoping to give to her. For most women, this means to give them penetration. You can give your woman penetration during oral sex by using your fingers. Now, with your tongue around the clitoris and your fingers stimulating the g-spot, you cannot lose. This is a foolproof way to give your woman pleasure and to drive her totally wild.

By utilizing these tips to your full advantage, you can make a woman orgasm from oral sex and you can make it happen as soon as tonight!